Coming up with the right thing to say can be difficult.
You may think only witty people have that ability.
Fortunately, your brain can access the response you need, subconsciously.
Pause by taking a “moment” and have your brain access the information it needs deep within the chambers of your mind.
Your brain’s power acts like RAM in a computer.
Think of your brain is a massive library.
You need a rolling ladder in order to access the book you need.
If someone insults you,
You must take enough time to haul that ladder to the correct aisle for that “response.”
If you “react” instead, you pull the wrong book because you were impatient.
You may end up regretting it.
When you pause, you allow your librarian to work, along with THEIRS as they absorb what you’re saying.
Practice pausing!